the number one cause of divorce is marriage

Hey everyone,

So today, for the first time in a long time, I sat for a good long while and did some contemplating on relationships. Why they fail, how they start, pros and cons, so n and so forth. I always thought I was a fairly decent person when it came to the opposite sex. I would show my significant other plenty of respect and attention. I would go out of my way to help with anything. I was never cruel or vindictive about petty fights.  I'd shower them with love and affection (when the time was appropriate of course). Eventually after so many failed relationships i just kind of ended up feeling like Ted Mosby from How I Met Your Mother.

The type that is a kind of hopeless romantic. Ready to give up trying after countless failed relationships. I can barely manage to keep friendships at this point in time how could I expect to date someone?  After time it really make you second guess yourself about everything. 

After that point you just become scornful and mean. which basically turns nice guys into ass holes. There are so many different actions and reactions throughout relationships. Things that can cause divorces and custody battles and break up seemingly happy families. I was once a firm believe that love could save anything. now, I am not so sure...

Often times I think I am cursed. It seems that girls who are not mentally stable seem to have an unexplainable attraction to me. They never start off that way. It's always fine and dandy at the beginning. That fist part of the relationship where you just can't seem to get enough of one another. Then you start to think "wow this girl is incredible. I need to make sure to make it official before someone else steals her from me." It's usually about 30 seconds after the relationship is made into an actual relationship that a switch flips in their brain. This then causes all hell to break loose. The girl you couldn't stand to be away from, you now can't stand to be around.